
I witnessed an accident once where a driver was waiting at a stop sign. She was on a side street waiting to merge onto a much larger, much busier highway. The traffic on the street she was wanting to join was non-stop, and she eventually just pulled out into traffic…and got broadsided.
Fortunately, no one was seriously injured, but it could have been a true tragedy. As I began my investigation, I asked her, “Why did you go? You had a stop sign. They had the right of way.”
Her answer was, at the time, incredulous to me. She said, “I wanted to go, and I had waited long enough, so I went.” True story, THAT is what she said. I didn’t see the need to explain to her, or remind her, that merging is legal only when it is safe to do so.
I must admit, her answer and attitude broadsided me. I quickly let go of my indignation and judgment once I realized that I too, at intersections of life, had waited long enough and just decided to go. You ever create havoc because you moved before it was safe to do so?
A stop sign, or red light, means just that…STOP. Implied in the stopping is that you will eventually get to go…but only when it is safe to do so. How many times have we wanted to move onto our “next”, demonstrate an area of growth, take something we either want or have been promised, and come to a stop sign?
How long do we wait? You might be single and you are tired of being single. But you have a red light, or a stop sign. You see couple after couple whizzing by on the highway of life, and you are ready to merge. How long must you wait? You could very well be a broadside waiting to happen!
Determining when it is “safe to do so” is not up to you! It is not based on your impatience or tolerance for staying in place. God has a plan for you and it involves multiple factors, one of which is timing. Wait on the Lord. Don’t get broadsided.
When this lady decided to go, she not only caused an accident for her and the person she hit, she also created a significant delay for all those around her. Many teams and organizations (read churches) have been slowed or diverted because somebody didn’t wait. The ensuing crash slowed all the traffic on the “highway to heaven”.
The body of Christ is one. He has one body. Just one. When all the members are operating as they should, there is a natural flow and like a well-planned intersection, things move in an orderly fashion.
Don’t be the source of a broadside. Wait until the time is right. His time, not yours. Stop signs and red lights are not always only about you. Others need to get to their “next” as well. Wait on the Lord and only move when He says it is safe to do so.








